Goal Setting in D/s Relationships
We geek out over setting goals, achieving them, and making progress on the things we want to do in life. And yes, that includes in our D/s relationship and our kinky fuckery. Even if...
Category: Episodes
Independent Submissives: Earning Trust and Navigating D/s Relationships
What it means to be independent is as unique to each of us as what it means to be submissive. But for anyone trying to win the affection, trust, and submission of a person...
The Difference Between Dom and Sub vs Top and Bottom
We get asked all the time what the difference between a dominant and submissive vs a top and bottom is. We’re not claiming to have all the answers, and labels are inherently personal. At...
On Aging and BDSM
This week’s episode was recorded on Kayla’s 40th birthday so it seemed appropriate to talk about getting older when you’re kinky. (Yes, I know, 40 isn’t old, but it’s still a milestone, mkay?) In...
The Art of Subtle Dominance and Submission
A big thanks to our kinky patron, Cdc, for suggesting this week’s topic — the subtle side of Dominance and submission. What (we think) we mean by that is that the longer you’re together,...
