On Aging and BDSM
This week’s episode was recorded on Kayla’s 40th birthday so it seemed appropriate to talk about getting older when you’re kinky. (Yes, I know, 40 isn’t old, but it’s still a milestone, mkay?) In...
Category: Episodes
The Art of Subtle Dominance and Submission
A big thanks to our kinky patron, Cdc, for suggesting this week’s topic — the subtle side of Dominance and submission. What (we think) we mean by that is that the longer you’re together,...
When You’re Afraid of Change in Your D/s Relationship
Being afraid (or overly cautious) about change is extremely common. Some people just don’t handle change well, while others want to feel in control of the changes that happen to them. We received a...
The Problem with Seeing Other D/s Relationships as #RelationshipGoals
There’s not a thing wrong with admiring other kinky relationships. We know quite a few people who we think have great chemistry, and we love being around them. But there are problems when we...
Crossing Boundaries and Ignoring Consent When Pursuing a Partner
I struggled with what to title this week’s episode. Primarily because I mostly want to say, “UGH, don’t do THESE things! EVER!” But that’s not very descriptive is it? This week’s episode was inspired...
