Category: Episodes

This is the full archive of every Loving BDSM episode we’ve ever produced.

A listener once said that the Loving BDSM podcast is like sitting around the kitchen table, having coffee, and chatting with friends. And that’s a perfect definition to us. We hope to keep that vibe going for a long time.

Whether you’re new to BDSM and D/s or you’ve been doing it a long time, we think there’s something here to help you on your kinky journey.

Q&A episode

BDSM Questions / Episodes / Mental Health

November 18, 2024

Q&A: How Do I Talk About My Mental Health?

A kinkster who’s been dealing with burnout, depression, and other personal stuff wonders how and when to bring up their mental health to a new partner. Here’s the question: My question is – as...

episode 418 of the Loving BDSM podcast

Episodes / Submissives

November 15, 2024

Assertive Submissives

Assertive gets conflated with bratting, demanding, and/or unsubmissive-like behavior. And we fundamentally disagree, so let’s talk about it. In this episode: All of our Etsy shops are on sale thru the rest of the...

Q&A episode

Episodes / Kink Community

November 4, 2024

Q&A: How Do I Handle Having a Bad Local Community?

A newish kinkster live in an area with a local kink community they’re not comfortable being part of and driving to another area isn’t an option. Here’s the question: What do I do when...

episode 417 of the Loving BDSM podcast

Communication / Dominant / Episodes

November 1, 2024

Dominants and Communication

We didn’t know where this would go before we started other than saying, “Yes, Doms need to communicate effectively, too.” (Obviously.) JB shares his experiences as a Dom who has struggled to communicate in...

Q&A episode

BDSM Questions / D/s Relationships / Episodes

October 28, 2024

Q&A: How Can I Motivate My Dom to Bring D/s Out of the Bedroom?

In this week’s episode, a submissive wants to bring D/s out of the bedroom, but their Dom doesn’t seem motivated to try. Here’s the question: My husband (33m) and I (34f) have been together...