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Loving BDSM special podcast episode to introduce The Kinkery, a new kinky fuckery shop by John Brownstone

Special Episode: Introducing the Kinkery

It’s here! It’s here! Not just a special Thursday podcast but John Brownstone’s new shop: The Kinkery! This episode ran longer than we intended (typical, lol). A big portion of this episode is us...

episode 238 of the Loving BDSM podcast

When Your Kinks Don’t Align

We’ve talked about this in different episodes in the past, but it’s time to give it a standalone episode. Whether in an established power exchange relationship or meeting a new partner, not every kink...

episode 237 of the Loving BDSM podcast discussing edge play and risk

Understanding Edge Play and Risk in BDSM

It’s the start of October — aka Kinktober. We thought it would be fun and appropriate to talk kink. We’re going in hot with a big (and sometimes heavy) topic: edge play, danger, and...

episode 236 of the Loving BDSM podcast

Dealing with Feelings of Shame

While we don’t get into all the causes for shame in this episode, we also understand that it’s a heavy topic. Feel free to ignore or come back to this one later, if needed....

episode 235 of the Loving BDSM podcast answering audience BDSM questions

BDSM Q&A

We had a rough weekend in our personal lives so took the easy way out for this week’s podcast episode. We asked y’all for questions on Instagram (at that handle Kayla hates). And y’all...

episode 234 of the Loving BDSM podcast

On Being a Fixer in a D/s Relationship

We’ve mentioned in multiple episodes some of the problems and challenges that happen in any relationship when you’re a “fixer” (as we are). This week, let’s talk about it in more detail! In this...

episode 233 of the Loving BDSM podcast

Reactive, Proactive, and Anticipatory Service

There are multiple ways of talking about submission, power exchange, and service (non-sexual and sexual). In this week’s episode, we take inspiration from a workbook by Luna Carruthers entitled Submissive Reflection: A Journey of...

episode 232 of the Loving BDSM podcast

Letting Hope and Joy Shine In When You Can

This week’s episode was inspired after we went on multiple rants about how much 2020 sucked, and someone said, “Uh, didn’t you buy a house this year? It can’t all suck.” And that’s when...

Assumptions About BDSM, D/s, and Kink

We seem to be on a roll turning old YouTube trends into podcast episodes. Yes, it’s a little strange, but it’s also a lot of fun! This week, we asked our Instagram followers to...