Why It’s a Journey
You’ve heard us call BDSM, power exchange, and the kink life a “journey.” And yes, it’s become cliche, but that doesn’t mean there’s not some truth to it. This week, we’re talking about why...
Author: Kayla Lords
Being “Picky” About Your Partners
A conversation with a kinky friend of ours prompted this week’s topic. That person stayed in a crumbling relationship because they thought they were being “too picky.” We disagreed with that person completely. But...
Re-Doing a BDSM Checklist
It started as an offhand idea John Brownstone threw out right before Christmas, and then we ran with it. It’s been years since we did any BDSM checklists, so we recorded ourselves doing one...
2021 Patreon Membership Drive: Become a Kinky Patron
We had this idea in 2020 for a “membership drive” in Patreon to help increase our membership, and it was such a success that we’re doing it again this year! Here’s what you need...
Approaching Partners with Ideas Not Expectations
Editor’s note: Please welcome Quenby (they/them) to the blog to discuss something a lot of us have faced this year in our own way — figuring out how to navigate our kinky relationships while...
