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30 Days of D/s / D/s Relationships / Kinky Fuckery

September 13, 2021

What Sexual Availability Means in Our Power Exchange | 30 Days of D/s

Sexual availability — the idea that a submissive partner can be fucked at “any” time by their Dominant — isn’t something that everyone wants. Even if sex is part of their D/s. As with...

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Communication / Episodes

September 7, 2021

Minisode 32: Asking Your Dominant for What You Want

A common struggle of many submissives is learning how to ask for what they need and want. It’s especially hard when you believe that a Dominant is always in charge and will decide what’s...

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30 Days of D/s / Kinky Fuckery

September 6, 2021

What is Orgasm Control? | 30 Days of D/s

Beyond “one of our [JB and Kayla] favorite ways to play with kink,” orgasm control is exactly as labeled: yielding control of one’s orgasms to someone else. In power exchange this often looks like...

D/s Relationships / Episodes

September 3, 2021

Vulnerability and Power Exchange

We’ve mentioned this topic so many times in the past, but we’re finally talking about it: the importance of vulnerability in power exchange. Our definition and view of vulnerability comes from Brene Brown’s talks,...

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D/s Relationships / Episodes

August 31, 2021

Minisode 31: Tips for New D/s Relationships

In a new D/s relationship? Feel a bit overwhelmed and not sure what to do or where to begin? Here are a few tips to keep in mind as you navigate this new path...

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What Sexual Availability Means in Our Power Exchange | 30 Days of D/s

Minisode 32: Asking Your Dominant for What You Want

What is Orgasm Control? | 30 Days of D/s

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Minisode 31: Tips for New D/s Relationships

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