Mutual Masturbation as Part of Our Sex Life
What is mutual masturbation? For us, it’s the act of masturbating together, whether or not we’re touching each other at the same time. We can masturbate in separate rooms and be connected by technology....
Author: Kayla Lords
Developing Your Strengths in D/s and BDSM
When you hear the word “strength,” what comes to mind? All kinds of things, probably. This week, we’re taking you on our winding conversation through what it means to be strong as a submissive,...
Why I’m a Masochist
I’m not sure exactly when I realized I was a masochist but I always knew that I had an unusually high tolerance for pain. I was that kid that poked my bruises, licked my...
Going Slow and Having Patience in D/s Relationships
It might seem strange for a notoriously impatient person (Kayla, here!) to tell everyone else to be patient, but the world is a strange place. Also, in D/s relationships and new kinky experiences, patience...
Why Patience is Important in D/s
Patience. It’s a word often associated with a certain stereotype of Dominant (the patient “wolf”). Patience is also the one thing that a certain stereotype of submissive lacks (or so we’re all told). But...
