Reflections on My Relationship with Pain
Please help us welcome guest contributor, The Bonny Sub, to the blog today. She’s sharing her journey with both excruciating chronic pain and her new BDSM journey and the lessons to be found in...
Author: Kayla Lords
Repressing Your Kinky Identity
This week’s topic comes straight from one of our kinky patrons — RaxLeanne! She shared her experience of repressing her kinky self in her relationship, and how it didn’t work out well. John Brownstone...
Video Series: 5 Things You Need to Know
I’m going to let you in on a little secret. Lean in close for this one…. We (okay, I) talk a lot. Shocking, right?! All kidding aside, we specialize in long conversations, and we...
Reflecting On Our Early BDSM and D/s Experiences
A big thank you to our kinky patron, Cdc, for this week’s topic. We were asked a series of questions about things we used to think or believe about BDSM and D/s, as well...
15 Things I Used to Believe about BDSM and D/s
We all come to new parts of our life with preconceived notions of what things mean, assuming we’ve been exposed to the idea at all. BDSM wasn’t really in my vocabulary at all until...
