Q&A: Can I Give Up My Kinky Nature to Be With a Vanilla Partner?
We received a question that I don’t actually have a clear answer to, partly because I don’t think there’s ever a clear answer to this one, but it’s worth think about: Can you go...
Author: Kayla Lords
Inclusivity, Identity, and the Principles of Your Kink Is Not My Kink
This week’s episode is a response to things we’ve seen online and things said to us — and it’s our line in the sand and our flag in the ground. The Loving BDSM community...
Reaching Your Kinky Goals Using Vanilla Tips [2020 Edition]
Disclosure: Affiliate links are included in this post. That means if you click a link and make a purchase, we make a small commission. This fuels the work we do and our coffee habit....
Stalled Plans, Disappointment, and Moving Forward
Everyone goes through times when things don’t go according to plan, from vanilla life to your kinky fuckery. Disappointment is universal, but it’s what we do next and how we think about it that...
BDSM Basics: 5 Things You Should Know About Erotic Humiliation
Erotic humiliation aka humiliation play isn’t for everyone. It’s a very distinct kink that works well for some and is a major hard limit for others. As with everything we do in BDSM, no...
