Task Creep in Power Exchange
We’ve experienced “task creep” – the act of taking on tasks/routines that weren’t specifically negotiated. Thankfully for us, we figured it out quickly and worked it out in a quick conversation. But like job...
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What Do I Do When My Dominant Can’t Handle the Mental Load?
This week’s question comes from a submissive who wants to be told what to do in power exchange, but their Dominant can’t handle the mental load. Here’s the question: I ask my Dom, “What...
When a Service Submissive Can’t Serve
This week, we’re talking about our experience during Kayla’s recovery from surgery – a time when she wasn’t able to be her service submissive self in her usual way. We share how we both...
What Sexual Availability Means in Our Power Exchange | 30 Days of D/s
Sexual availability — the idea that a submissive partner can be fucked at “any” time by their Dominant — isn’t something that everyone wants. Even if sex is part of their D/s. As with...
Reactive, Proactive, and Anticipatory Service
There are multiple ways of talking about submission, power exchange, and service (non-sexual and sexual). In this week’s episode, we take inspiration from a workbook by Luna Carruthers entitled Submissive Reflection: A Journey of...
