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November 15, 2024

Assertive Submissives

Assertive gets conflated with bratting, demanding, and/or unsubmissive-like behavior. And we fundamentally disagree, so let’s talk about it. In this episode: All of our Etsy shops are on sale thru the rest of the...

BDSM Questions / Communication / Episodes

May 27, 2024

Q&A: Is My Dom the Problem or Am I?

A submissive has a recurring issue about aftercare with their Dominant partner and wants to know: are they the problem or is it me? Here’s the question: I’ve been dating a dom for about...

episode 327 of the Loving BDSM podcast on sharing your burdens in your D/s relationship

D/s Relationships / Episodes

October 28, 2022

Sharing Burdens in Power Exchange

We mentioned something in last week’s episode on people-pleasing — about needing to talk to JB about a stressor Kayla tried to handle alone — and it got us thinking about the things we...

D/s Relationships / Episodes

October 8, 2021

Different Types of Personal Boundaries

In this week’s episode, we take inspiration from a very vanilla article on the five types of personal boundaries we all need to set. But, of course, we talk about them in terms of...

30 Days of D/s / Communication / Kinky Fuckery

June 28, 2021

7 Safeword Tips to Keep in Mind Before, During, and After You Get Kinky | 30 Days of D/s

We believe every kinkster should have a safeword. Yes, we know, some people don’t “believe” in them (safewords aren’t unicorns or fairies, so “belief” isn’t really a factor, is it?), but for new partnerships...

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Assertive Submissives

Q&A: Is My Dom the Problem or Am I?

Sharing Burdens in Power Exchange

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