Tagged: aftercare

what new Dominants need to know - a list of 13 things 2

13 Things New Dominants Need to Know

If we tried to write a totally comprehensive list of everything a new Dominant needs to know, we’d be here for a while. So consider this a “top 13” kind of list. Getting these...

episode 146 of Loving BDSM podcast is about subspace 0

Subspace LB146

How we managed to get so far and never discuss subspace as it’s own topic, I’ll never know. If you look below at the links, you’ll see all kinds of similar topics — drop,...

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Aftercare LB095

This week for episode 95, the topic is aftercare – what it is, how to offer it, and how it’s different for everyone. In this episode: What is aftercare? How do you do it?...

no set rules in aftercare 0

Aftercare: Finding What Works For You

When it comes to kink, BDSM, D/s, and sex in general, most of us are very concerned with doing things the “right” way. For some it’s out of fear of harming another person or...