aftercare Archives • Loving BDSM

December 2, 2024

Q&A: Why is My Sub Irritable After a Scene? Is It Drop?

A Dominant provides the aftercare his submissive wants, but she’s always cranky the day after a scene. Here’s the question: My (41m/Dom) and my wife (42f/sub) have been married for four years and discovered...

BDSM Questions / Communication / Episodes

May 27, 2024

Q&A: Is My Dom the Problem or Am I?

A submissive has a recurring issue about aftercare with their Dominant partner and wants to know: are they the problem or is it me? Here’s the question: I’ve been dating a dom for about...

minisode 52 of the Loving BDSM podcast on subspace

Episodes / Kinky Fuckery

March 8, 2022

Minisode 52: Subspace

Too many kinksters chase subspace and then feel disappointed after their scene. Not because it didn’t go well but because they didn’t undergo a bio-chemical reaction that they had absolutely no control over. So...

Dominant / Kinky Fuckery / Submissives

February 11, 2019

Video Series: 5 Things You Need to Know

I’m going to let you in on a little secret. Lean in close for this one…. We (okay, I) talk a lot. Shocking, right?! All kidding aside, we specialize in long conversations, and we...

Dominant

October 10, 2018

13 Things New Dominants Need to Know

If we tried to write a totally comprehensive list of everything a new Dominant needs to know, we’d be here for a while. So consider this a “top 13” kind of list. Getting these...

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Q&A: Why is My Sub Irritable After a Scene? Is It Drop?

Q&A: Is My Dom the Problem or Am I?

Minisode 52: Subspace

Video Series: 5 Things You Need to Know

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