Listener Questions: 24/7 D/s, Being a Good Dom, and More!
This week, we did something a little different. We’ve been overwhelmed (in a good way) with a lot of listener questions, and there just isn’t enough time in the day to answer everyone. So...
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WHAT DO WE DO ?
We help kinksters like you have happy, healthy power exchange relationships. No matter how you define BDSM and no matter what kind of kinky relationship you want, we’re here to help!
WHO ARE WE ?
We are John Brownstone (the Dom) and Kayla Lords (the sub), a married D/s couple, sharing our thoughts, feelings, and experiences on this thing we call BDSM.
Grow and Learn With Us!
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D/s for Beginners
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30 Days of D/s
Still trying to figure out how you feel about D/s, power exchange, and BDSM? Get the 30 Days of D/s workbook to help you think about BDSM in a more manageable way and figure out what YOU want. Buy it here.
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Where to Go to Learn More About BDSM, Kink, and D/s
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