Book Review: The Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino
I’m a big reader – fiction, nonfiction, kinky, not kinky – give me a book, and I’m a happy girl. Starting a kinky book club for the Loving BDSM community wasn’t just for the...
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Coasting in Your D/s Relationship LB097
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Most relationships don’t explode in a blaze of glory because of a single thing. When you see relationship drama unfold on your social media feed, it’s easy to keep watching and be grateful that’s...
Do All Submissives Go Commando?
Think of one of the sexiest things you can imagine in D/s. Does it involve a distinct lack of underwear? In public? It does for us, but for other kinksters, going commando is a...
When the Submissive Leads the Transition from Vanilla to D/s LB096
In episode 96, we talk about transitioning your relationship from vanilla to kink when the submissive leads their Dominant partner – at least in the beginning as they’re learning. In this episode: Enter our...
We’re Celebrating Two Years of Podcasts with a Giveaway!
Update for August 21, 2017: Godemiche is sponsoring part of our giveaway and the Loving BDSM swag has been been bumped up from $25 to $50!!! Thank you Godemiche. We’ll discuss Godemiche, who they...
