From Daddy’s Desk: Silence as Punishment

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  1. pandakitten says:

    @PandaDaddy and I learned early on that distance feels like abandonment to me, and triggers all kinds of bad feels. We’re very careful about having proximity involved in everything; punishment, play, etc. so that I never feel abandoned. Sometimes it means we adjust our negotiations to accommodate for play purposes etc., but I would straight up say for me that the silent treatment is a hard limit. The goal is a loving relationship with open communication; silence from my partner is utterly the opposite.

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