15 Things I Used to Believe about BDSM and D/s
We all come to new parts of our life with preconceived notions of what things mean, assuming we’ve been exposed to the idea at all. BDSM wasn’t really in my vocabulary at all until...
Category: D/s Relationships
Why Patience is Important in D/s
Patience. It’s a word often associated with a certain stereotype of Dominant (the patient “wolf”). Patience is also the one thing that a certain stereotype of submissive lacks (or so we’re all told). But...
I Forgot to Focus On Our D/s Relationship
At the end of 2018, as part of a bigger conversation about 2019, John Brownstone asked me, “What would you like to do differently in our D/s next year? What new things would you...
The Power of Eye Contact
Eye contact can be an extremely powerful tool in D/s and BDSM, depending on how you and your partner feel about it. For me, looking into someone’s eyes is inherently personal, and the introvert...
Busting Myths: 4 Things About 24/7 D/s You May Not Know
I’m not the kinkster who walks around rolling her eyes, huffing, and sighing with complete disgust when someone refers to BDSM as that “50 Shades thing.” Well, at least not where anyone can see...
