You Can’t Make Your Partner Be a Dominant or Submissive
Are Dominants and submissives born or are they made? I have no freaking clue. I can see an argument for both sides — some people inherently feel a desire to dominate or submit while...
Category: D/s Relationships
When Your Dominant Wants You To Change Something About Yourself
Someone recently asked, “What do I do if my Dominant wants me to lose weight?” This type of question gets asked a lot…just replace “lose weight” with something else…cut my hair, shave my genitals,...
Video Series: 5 Things You Need to Know About Even More BDSM Topics
The last time we shared our latest video series, it was a brand new thing, and we were just getting warmed up. Several weeks in, and we’re loving these short videos that (hopefully) pack...
15 Things I Used to Believe about BDSM and D/s
We all come to new parts of our life with preconceived notions of what things mean, assuming we’ve been exposed to the idea at all. BDSM wasn’t really in my vocabulary at all until...
Why Patience is Important in D/s
Patience. It’s a word often associated with a certain stereotype of Dominant (the patient “wolf”). Patience is also the one thing that a certain stereotype of submissive lacks (or so we’re all told). But...
