Here at Loving BDSM, we included “loving” in our name for a couple of reasons. One has everything to do with loving D/s and other kinky relationships. A loving relationship isn’t always permanent, sexual, or something that includes a fairy tale ending. But the relationships we form with each other in D/s and BDSM are important.
This is where you’ll find blog posts on building better D/s relationships, navigating tough moments in your kinky relationship, and taking care of each other.
This kinkster loves what they have with their boyfriend, but they’ve also discovered new desires that feel opposed to who they think they are. Here’s the question: I’m a poly woman with two long-term...
by Kayla Lords · Published October 10, 2025 · Last modified October 8, 2025
This week, we’re answering relationship questions from Therapy Jeff (again!) because we needed a chill, low-key episode, lol. In this episode: Check out the new version of the Kinkery! This week’s trans-affirming resource is...
by Kayla Lords · Published September 19, 2025 · Last modified September 18, 2025
We had technical issues last week which kept us from recording this episode, but we’re back! (Technically with new technical problems but those don’t impact the podcast, lol.) This week, we’re giving updates from...
by Kayla Lords · Published August 8, 2025 · Last modified August 7, 2025
We’ve spent the past couple of months using the free version of the Obedience app, and now we’re ready to share how we’ve used it and how it’s helped us. Spoiler: We like the...
by Kayla Lords · Published August 1, 2025 · Last modified July 31, 2025
This week’s episode is a “ripped from the pages of our life” kind of topic. We recently had a long conversation where Kayla shared some of what she needs as a submissive, but JB...
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