How Our D/s Negotiations Have Changed Over Time
We’re hitting a lot of milestones after 10 years in a D/s relationship. One we didn’t expect is that how we’re negotiating parts of our dynamic has changed. Here’s what that looks like for...
Category: Communication
Revisiting Episode 2: How to Talk to Your Dominant
We’re continuing with the exercise of revisiting old episodes from the archive from before we had lengthy conversations about kinky topics. This week, we’re rehashing the second episode which was all about helping nervous...
Minisode 39: Negotiation Tips
In this week’s minisode, we share a few tips, tricks, and truths we’ve learned about negotiation in power exchange. Simply put, negotiation is a way to communicate your needs, get consent, and figure out...
How We Explore New Kinks Together | 30 Days of D/s
We’re fairly set in our ways at this point in life. We know what we like, and we tend to stick with it. It probably has something to do with how routine-driven we are,...
Minisode 32: Asking Your Dominant for What You Want
A common struggle of many submissives is learning how to ask for what they need and want. It’s especially hard when you believe that a Dominant is always in charge and will decide what’s...
