How to Know When You Have Consent | 30 Days of D/s
We’ve talked about consent a LOT around here. (Scroll to the end for a list if you want to deep-dive into this topic). And we’ll continue doing so because (in our view) it’s one...
Category: Communication
7 Safeword Tips to Keep in Mind Before, During, and After You Get Kinky | 30 Days of D/s
We believe every kinkster should have a safeword. Yes, we know, some people don’t “believe” in them (safewords aren’t unicorns or fairies, so “belief” isn’t really a factor, is it?), but for new partnerships...
How to Be a Better Communicator | 30 Days of D/s
Communication comes in many forms and isn’t always as simple as opening your mouth and letting the words tumble out. But if you want a power exchange relationship that can last or even kinky...
Advocating for Yourself in BDSM
The word “advocacy” in terms of power exchange and BDSM has been on our minds a lot lately, so it’s time to do an episode about it. We used a non-kink list of how...
Figuring Out Our Apology Language
We’ve talked about love languages before, and we’ve talked about making mistakes and needing to apologize. So imagine our delight when we discovered there’s a thing called an apology language (based on the 5...
