Q&A: Is My Dom the Problem or Am I?
A submissive has a recurring issue about aftercare with their Dominant partner and wants to know: are they the problem or is it me? Here’s the question: I’ve been dating a dom for about...
BDSM Questions / Communication / Episodes
by Kayla Lords · Published May 27, 2024 · Last modified May 24, 2024
A submissive has a recurring issue about aftercare with their Dominant partner and wants to know: are they the problem or is it me? Here’s the question: I’ve been dating a dom for about...
BDSM Questions / Communication / Episodes
by Kayla Lords · Published December 11, 2023 · Last modified December 10, 2023
In this week’s episode, someone asks how to negotiate with someone who doesn’t even really know if they like kink yet. Here’s the question: Hey long time listener enjoying most of your long ones...
Communication / Episodes / Submissives
by Kayla Lords · Published December 4, 2023 · Last modified December 3, 2023
In this week’s Q&A episode, a submissive likes the positive reinforcement of rewards in their dynamic, but they don’t feel like they’re getting enough or the right kind they want and need. Here’s the...
Communication / D/s Relationships / Episodes
by Kayla Lords · Published September 22, 2023 · Last modified September 21, 2023
This week’s episode is brought to you by our own personal stressors and more inspiration from Therapy Jeff! We’ve mentioned in the past that – when you can – it can be helpful to...
Communication / D/s Relationships / Episodes
by Kayla Lords · Published July 28, 2023 · Last modified July 27, 2023
This week, we’re answering more non-kinky relationship questions. These came from a marriage coach on Instagram who labeled these questions as conversation starters to deepen your connection. We’ll see about that, lol. In this...
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