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Most relationships don’t explode in a blaze of glory because of a single thing. When you see relationship drama unfold on your social media feed, it’s easy to keep watching and be grateful that’s...

Think of one of the sexiest things you can imagine in D/s. Does it involve a distinct lack of underwear? In public? It does for us, but for other kinksters, going commando is a...

In episode 96, we talk about transitioning your relationship from vanilla to kink when the submissive leads their Dominant partner – at least in the beginning as they’re learning. In this episode: Enter our...

Update for August 21, 2017: Godemiche is sponsoring part of our giveaway and the Loving BDSM swag has been been bumped up from $25 to $50!!! Thank you Godemiche. We’ll discuss Godemiche, who they...

Imagine the perfect world D/s scenario (from the perspective of at least one submissive I know): They meet a Dominant partner who knows exactly what they want, how to do all the kinky things,...

When you first figured out whether you were Dominant, submissive, or both (or none of the above), did you worry about what your title was? Did it matter to you? What about when you...

This week for episode 95, the topic is aftercare – what it is, how to offer it, and how it’s different for everyone. In this episode: What is aftercare? How do you do it?...

When it comes to kink, BDSM, D/s, and sex in general, most of us are very concerned with doing things the “right” way. For some it’s out of fear of harming another person or...

This week, we’re back to normal for episode 94, and we’re discussing something that doesn’t get a lot of attention – positive reinforcement. Punishment gets all the glory but positive reinforcement is a kinder,...

Punishment and discipline get a fair bit of attention in both D/s relationships as well as in BDSM. Scratch the surface of BDSM, and you’ll find plenty of arguments that discipline is better than...