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When it comes to kink, BDSM, D/s, and sex in general, most of us are very concerned with doing things the “right” way. For some it’s out of fear of harming another person or...

This week, we’re back to normal for episode 94, and we’re discussing something that doesn’t get a lot of attention – positive reinforcement. Punishment gets all the glory but positive reinforcement is a kinder,...

Punishment and discipline get a fair bit of attention in both D/s relationships as well as in BDSM. Scratch the surface of BDSM, and you’ll find plenty of arguments that discipline is better than...

Nothing particularly educational this week for episode 93. Think of this as a long bonus section. If that’s not your thing, no worries, we’ll be back to normal in episode 94. Links from the...

GIF via Giphy When John Brownstone and I decided that we wanted Loving BDSM to have it’s own home and that we wanted to build our own kinky community, we had a vision for...

We’re out of town this week but through a bit of time travel, we have a brief episode on cock rings. In this episode: This week’s episode inspired by a topic from Molly Moore’s Kink...

Say cock ring to some people, and they quiver with thoughts of submissives being bound and tortured by all kinds of kinky fuckery – with or without a cock ring. I will admit there...

This week we’re talking about kneeling and crawling, two stereotypical submissive acts that not everyone can do, or even wants to do. In this episode:   This week’s episode inspired by two topics from...

Crawling and kneeling as submissive acts are depicted everywhere – from porn and erotica to the leashes and collars in sex toy shops. The common idea is that all submissives must kneel on the...

We didn’t know a lot of people had feelings about this topic until we mentioned in on the blog and on Twitter. Episode 90 focuses on topping from the bottom – what it is,...