Discovering BDSM and His Dominant Self

John Brownstone hosts his first episode of the Loving BDSM podcast. This week’s topic – his personal journey into BDSM and discovering his Dominant self.

In this episode:

  • John Brownstone really exists!
  • Where he learned about BDSM: Leather and Roses: A BDSM Resource Site
  • He writes erotica and gets asked if he’s a Dominant. He says no.
  • His wife rejects his kinky desires. He buries that side of himself…for a while.
  • People continue to ask him if he’s a Dominant.
  • He was a submissive first.
  • Then he had his own submissive.
  • The Gor books made an impact: Chronicles of Gor by John Norman
  • He enters the local BDSM lifestyle.

Everyone’s journey will be different. Realize there will be ups and downs throughout it all. There’s no right or wrong path into BDSM but the willingness to learn, experiment, and explore is necessary.

As always, if you have a question you want answered on the podcast or a topic suggestion, you can contact me or John Brownstone. We’ll answer you directly but we’ll also maintain your anonymity when we discuss it on the show.

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3 Responses

  1. Lawrence says:

    That was an awesome podcast that was very informative and educational. I can relate to your on many different levels and have much respect for your courage to leave an unsatisfying marriage.

    • Kayla Lords says:

      Thank you so much! It’s not easy going through the hard times but sometimes, it’s completely worth it.

  2. Daniel says:

    John – that was fantastic – thank you!! I am learning so much through y’all – I think I have found the lifestyle that I am looking for. (for the record, it sounds like you were married to my ex-wife!! I never approached her about BDSM, but to say that she was a “prude” would be an understatement!!)

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