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This week we’re talking about kneeling and crawling, two stereotypical submissive acts that not everyone can do, or even wants to do. In this episode:   This week’s episode inspired by two topics from...

Crawling and kneeling as submissive acts are depicted everywhere – from porn and erotica to the leashes and collars in sex toy shops. The common idea is that all submissives must kneel on the...

We didn’t know a lot of people had feelings about this topic until we mentioned in on the blog and on Twitter. Episode 90 focuses on topping from the bottom – what it is,...

Ahhhh, topping from the bottom. That time honored tradition that either means a submissive has a lot to learn or one in dire need of reconfiguring their D/s relationship. Of course, unfortunately, sometimes the accusation...

We’re back for episode 89 and we’re talking about something that kills relationships or makes it impossible to get one started – your insecurities about yourself, your partner, past relationships, you name it. In...

Being insecure about something isn’t necessarily a problem. If those feelings propel you to improve yourself, find contentment, or learn more about yourself, insecurities can actually help you grow. The problem for most of...

This week, we answer more questions from listeners and ramble – because that’s what we do. In this episode: This week’s sponsor is Ecstatic Relaxation by Vin Charles This week’s question is from a...

Dear Kinkster-I-Respect, My partner doesn’t like this/loves this/wishes for that. I think he’s right/wrong/weird. How do I make him like what I like? What do I do if he hates my kinks? Will I...

In episode 87, we lie about how short the episode will be and how many listener questions we can answer. Hint: we only finish answering one question. There are no real show notes, but...

This week, in episode 86, we’re talking about the concept of the five love languages, as found in the book The 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman, and how to apply them to...