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The day this blog post goes live is the day before Thanksgiving (and two days before Black Friday). On the day after Thanksgiving, our annual favorite toys of the year round-up podcast episode drops....

John Brownstone and I are fairly picky about our BDSM gear. We like what we like, and most of what we like is leather. But when Oxyd Creations reached out and asked if we’d...

Luckily, I’m gay in one of the best times in history in my opinion. I fully acknowledge that I have so much privilege. I’m white, cisgender, and gay in a time when I can...

Pardon the missed episode last week and our fuzzy brains this week. It took us a while to find the words we wanted for this one, but the basic idea is this…D/s isn’t just...

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This week’s episode is a listener request, but Kayla was a bad podcast co-host and forgot to write down the person’s name. She should be punished, but she might like that too much. But...

SQUEEEEEEE!!!! We love giving away kinky fuckery, but I’m not sure either of us has been this excited about it before. Lodbrock, maker of amazing kinky toys — like the Pillory Set we reviewed...

I’ll be honest…I didn’t know how to title this episode because we talk about a very nuanced topic that can mean something different for every D/s relationship. Basically, it’s about feeling your Dominant or...

Vanilla life interferes with D/s and kink every chance it gets. Bills need to be paid. You have to go work. And let’s not even mention what parenting can do to your kinky life....

BDSM Dungeon. Those words cause many a kinkster to shiver, some out of excitement and some out of fear. If you have never been to a dungeon, it can seem intimidating. You are probably...