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I think I’ve been sexually submissive my entire adult life. Maybe even earlier, but since I didn’t start having sex until I turned 18, I don’t know for sure. By not understanding this part...

For us, sex is very much part of our D/s relationship. All forms of sex. Even those rare occasions when we indulge in slow, sweet lovemaking, there is no doubt who has control. But...

We’re back with our first episode of 2019! And it’s an intensely personal one…about the moment one of us (ahem, me) lost focus on our D/s relationship. We walk about why it happened, what...

At the end of 2018, as part of a bigger conversation about 2019, John Brownstone asked me, “What would you like to do differently in our D/s next year? What new things would you...

I’d heard of ASMR Boyfriend Role Play a while ago, but brushed it off as one of those “weird corner of the internet” things, despite its popular following. But this summer, curiosity got the...

We’ve talked about every other part of BDSM except for bondage…until now. While we did spend time at the end on rope bondage, there’s a lot more to being bound than using rope. As...

I love rope bondage. I like the feel of the rope in my hands, the relaxation of tying and wrapping it around Kayla’s body, and the way it looks when I’m done. Although I...

Eye contact can be an extremely powerful tool in D/s and BDSM, depending on how you and your partner feel about it. For me, looking into someone’s eyes is inherently personal, and the introvert...

We talk about being 24/7 D/s in nearly every episode we record, because it’s who we are. But we’ve never really talked about what it means to us. It’s pretty simple, but it’s also...

I’m not the kinkster who walks around rolling her eyes, huffing, and sighing with complete disgust when someone refers to BDSM as that “50 Shades thing.” Well, at least not where anyone can see...