“Tests” in D/s Relationships LB103
We’re a little bit ranty this week, but it’s all for a good cause. A new-to-us red flag appears to be submissives being “tested” on their D/s relationship without knowing it, without consenting to...
Author: Kayla Lords
5 Real Ways to Prove Yourself in D/s Relationships
Are you a Dominant who believes your submissive has to “prove” their devotion through special tests you set? Or are you a submissive who has been asked to prove yourself with “tests” that make...
Can a Handjob Be Kinky?
Depending on your relationship with penises and handjobs, it might not be something you’ve given a lot of thought to. And if you think of them at all, you might not immediately think of...
Equality and Balance in D/s Relationships LB102
In episode 102, we’re talking about the idea of equality in a D/s relationship. We each come at this in different, but not opposite ways. Are the people in a D/s relationship equal or...
5 Signs of an Unhealthy Imbalance in Your D/s Relationship
We get asked – usually be people who are new to BDSM – about whether both partners in a D/s relationship are equal or not. If one partner has all the control, doesn’t that...
