Can a submissive or Dominant be good? Yes. Can they be right for you? Maybe. What about “real” Doms or subs? Well, that’s where it gets problematic. Let’s get one thing straight: yes, there...
by Kayla Lords · Published June 4, 2018 · Last modified October 29, 2018
“A top who has never had something go wrong in a scene has either been unbelievably lucky or has barely scened at all.” A friend said this to me once after we had witnessed...
It’s been a loooong time since we participated in Share Our Shit Saturday with the sex blogging community. But after reading so many great posts on kink, BDSM, and D/s this week, we’ve got...
When you see the term “red flags” in BDSM, most people immediately think of Dominants — the assholes, predators, posers, and uneducated kinksters. But that makes it seem like all submissives are perfect little...
Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, we turned this post into a mini-episode for the podcast that covers the same points below: Submissive Red Flags (minisode 13) We talk an awful...
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