Red Flags and Submissives LB132
When you see the term “red flags” in BDSM, most people immediately think of Dominants — the assholes, predators, posers, and uneducated kinksters. But that makes it seem like all submissives are perfect little...
Author: Kayla Lords
6 Red Flags From Submissives That Turn Off Dominants
Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, we turned this post into a mini-episode for the podcast that covers the same points below: Submissive Red Flags (minisode 13) We talk an awful...
Secrets in a D/s Relationship LB131
When we put out the call for topic suggestions a few weeks ago, Chloe Dare asked us to talk about whether you can have secrets in a D/s relationship. It’s a good question, and,...
5 Secrets You Might Have in a D/s Relationship
Of course every D/s relationship is different, as is every communication style, power dynamic, and the things that make it work between you and another person. So if you read the title and thought,...
Is it the Accent or the Person?
The latest Kink of the Week topic is all about voices, accents, and languages. The prompt asks whether they’re a kink of yours — why or why not. For me, accents can be sexy....
