Saying “No” In D/s Relationships
No means no, until you negotiate something different in your D/s relationship. No can be a kinky act of denial or it can be a way to maintain boundaries. The one thing that’s definite...
Author: Kayla Lords
Reasons You May Say “No” in a D/s Relationship
Two things to get out of the way immediately. No is a complete sentence. It does not require anything else. Just…no. Second, no is complicated in a power exchange that’s predicated on one partner...
Video Series: 5 Things You Need to Know About Spankings, Orgasm Control, and Munches
Even though we took a hiatus to move and we had a lot of vlogs and sex toy reviews, we’ve continued our 5 Things You Need to Know Series, too. For quick primers on...
Dealing With Your Fears in D/s Relationships
When you’re new to D/s or just new to a D/s relationship, it’s common to have fears and concerns. Especially if you’ve had bad experiences or heartbreak in the past. We’re not telling you...
5 Fears You May Feel in a New D/s Relationship
When you hear the word “fear” what comes to mind? Is it past trauma or future worries? Are you afraid of spiders or snakes? Many people enter into a D/s relationship — or at...
