Helping People Feel Welcome in the Kinky Community
We love being members of a kinky community — online and in-person. And we also appreciate the hard work that goes into hosting events and facilitating meet-ups. But after a few events where we...
Author: Kayla Lords
Being Good Members of Your Kink Community
When we join our local in-person kinky communities — or even the online kink community, do we have certain responsibilities or obligations to everyone else in the community? That’s a tricky question, but certainly...
When Your D/s is Out of Sync
Earlier this week, we were out of sync — we weren’t in tune with each other in terms of kink. John Brownstone went too hard, too fast, and I didn’t speak up when I...
When Other Things Take Priority Over Your Kinky Fuckery
On the day I’m writing this, the kids have already left for a three-week visit at their grandparents house — after a month at home for the summer. John Brownstone and I have talked...
Saying “No” In D/s Relationships
No means no, until you negotiate something different in your D/s relationship. No can be a kinky act of denial or it can be a way to maintain boundaries. The one thing that’s definite...
