The Difference Between Dom and Sub vs Top and Bottom
We get asked all the time what the difference between a dominant and submissive vs a top and bottom is. We’re not claiming to have all the answers, and labels are inherently personal. At...
Author: Kayla Lords
Q&A: How Do I Stop Feeling Nervous About Submitting to My Dominant?
For first-time submissives or even those entering a D/s relationship after a break (or a break-up), I think it’s normal to feel nervous. Especially if you’ve had to spend any time of your life...
On Aging and BDSM
This week’s episode was recorded on Kayla’s 40th birthday so it seemed appropriate to talk about getting older when you’re kinky. (Yes, I know, 40 isn’t old, but it’s still a milestone, mkay?) In...
We Tried the Hipster by Liberator…and Loved It
Disclaimer: We received the Hipster in exchange for an honest review. Affiliate links are also included — this means if you click a link and make a purchase, we make a small commission which...
The Art of Subtle Dominance and Submission
A big thanks to our kinky patron, Cdc, for suggesting this week’s topic — the subtle side of Dominance and submission. What (we think) we mean by that is that the longer you’re together,...
