The Responsibilities of a Dominant and a Submissive LB044

by Kayla Lords · Published July 8, 2016 · Updated January 3, 2020

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John Brownstone joins Kayla Lords for episode 44 where they discuss the different types of responsibilities a Dominant and a submissive can have in a relationship.

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Responsibilities to your relationship aren’t a kink thing, they’re a people thing.
Some responsibilities are definitely D/s, though.
John Brownstone discusses his responsibilities in our relationship.
Protection
Helping me.
Taking care of me when I’m sick.
Financial responsibilities
Helping me achieve my personal and professional goals.
Taking care of his “toy”
My responsibilities as a submissive are just as important.
Making sure my tasks are completed.
Making sure I keep myself healthy and whole – which at this point means I’ll be meeting with a therapist to deal with some of the mental gunk that’s been weighing me down.
Communicating my needs and when something is wrong.
Our biggest responsibility is to each other – to take care of the other in the best way we can.
Those responsibilities are no less important when life gets stressful and hectic.
In the crazy moments life throws you, sometimes your D/s relationship and sense of responsibility is the only moment of calm you have. Cling to it like a life preserver.
Sometimes that responsibility is too much, and one or both of you won’t be able to maintain it. There is no right answer.