Q&A: Is It OK for Subs to Call Me Sir When We Meet?
This Dominant knows not to come on too strong when getting to know submissives, but some of them call him “Sir” from the very beginning, and he’s not sure if it’s a problem or...
This Dominant knows not to come on too strong when getting to know submissives, but some of them call him “Sir” from the very beginning, and he’s not sure if it’s a problem or...
30 Days of D/s / D/s Relationships
by Kayla Lords · Published November 18, 2021 · Last modified April 25, 2022
Plenty of people worry about getting their power exchange relationship “right.” They want to have the “right” rules and protocols, follow the “right” dynamic, and use the “right” titles. Those things matter a lot...
This week it’s just the tip, y’all…just five tips on figuring out, dealing with, and using BDSM titles. Have we talked about the topic a LOT in the past? Absolutely. Why? Because it’s both...
We’ve had a few things to say about BDSM titles and labels over the years — because for many, finding the “right” word is important. But that sense of importance can make the process...
BDSM Basics / Dominant / Submissives
by Kayla Lords · Published January 27, 2020 · Last modified May 4, 2021
Few topics get people heated like the different titles and labels we use in BDSM. As they’re inherently personal, kinksters often have strong opinions on using the “right” label. While words have literal definitions,...
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