Managing Expectations in D/s
A conversation with John Brownstone to help manage our expectations of the upcoming sale of our home led to this idea. It’s easy to have a picture in your mind of what you want...
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Book Review: Tongue Tied by Stella Harris
*We received Tongue Tied by Stella Harris in exchange for an honest review. Affiliate links are included in this post. When I know I’m going to read a book on a topic I frequently...
Actively Participating in Your D/s Relationship
Many of us might yearn for a life where we decide things will happen, and then they just do…as if by magic. But in the real world, we only get the healthy D/s relationship...
Sex Toy Review Videos: Hot Octopuss and KinkCrate
**All products were sent in exchange for an honest review. Links to the products and companies are affiliate links. If you make a purchase, we make a small commission which allows us to fuel...
Anger in D/s Relationships
Content warning: we very briefly touch on anger in abusive situations and the way that anger can trigger negative reactions in ourselves. If today isn’t the day for you to hear about that, skip...
30 Days of D/s Updates for Bloggers and Kinksters
March 2022 Update: 30 Days of D/s is on temporary hold while it goes through updates and format changes. You want to know what’s great about a community (kink or otherwise)? Good ideas can...
