How to Hire a Professional Dominant
There are as many reasons to hire a professional dominant as there are willing clients. Maybe you want to try kink outside of an established relationship. Maybe you only trust the professionals. Or maybe...
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WHAT DO WE DO ?
We help kinksters like you have happy, healthy power exchange relationships. No matter how you define BDSM and no matter what kind of kinky relationship you want, we’re here to help!
WHO ARE WE ?
We are John Brownstone (the Dom) and Kayla Lords (the sub), a married D/s couple, sharing our thoughts, feelings, and experiences on this thing we call BDSM.
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Truthfully, there are as many ways to be a submissive as there are submissives in the world. But in trying to define submission, we broke it down into three ideas. These are the broad...
How We Explore New Kinks Together | 30 Days of D/s
We’re fairly set in our ways at this point in life. We know what we like, and we tend to stick with it. It probably has something to do with how routine-driven we are,...
Mindfulness, Meditation, and BDSM
We came across a fascinating article on BDSM, meditation, and mindfulness, so we decided to talk about it! In this episode: Cara Dunkley, a clinical psychologist from the Sexual Health Laboratory at the University...
Minisode 37: Building Your BDSM First Aid Kit
Yes, most of us know to consider the risks of our BDSM fun. Yes, most of us talk about safety or at least think about it on some level. Unfortunately, though, not everyone prepares...
How We Parent as Kinksters | 30 Days of D/s
A lot of parents worry that they can’t be into kink because they’ve got young kids or curious kids or kids at all. We fundamentally disagree with that idea. Are there precautions to take...
