Don’t Put Your Dominant on a Pedestal LB020
Kayla Lords hosts this week’s show, and she’s discussing the very real truth that Dominants are (gasp!) not perfect, prone to normal human flaws, and shouldn’t be put up on a pedestal by submissives...
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Kayla Lords and John Brownstone host a special New Year’s Day episode dedicated to kinky resolutions – from silly to serious. In this show: Kayla shares her resolution ideas for submissives. John shares his...
Kinking Our Favorite Christmas Songs LB018
Kayla Lords and John Brownstone host this week’s episode of Loving BDSM. A quick “Merry Christmas” for all the listeners, and a little fun, kinking up a few Christmas songs. In this episode: Kayla...
A Few of Our Favorite Sex Toys LB017
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Making the Switch from Vanilla to D/s LB016
This week’s episode is hosted by Kayla Lords and shares advice with listeners on how to go about making the switch from a strictly vanilla relationship to D/s. A listener asked for a step-by-step...
Resetting a Submissive’s Noisy Mind LB015
Kayla Lords hosts episode 15 and answers a listener’s questions about resets, something she’s referred to in passing several times. What is a reset? How do you know you need one? And what does...
