Adding a Tough Love Clause to a D/s Relationship LB009
Kayla Lords talks about a special feature of her D/s relationship with John Brownstone – the Tough Love clause. It’s what allows her to “tell” her Daddy Dominant what she thinks he needs to...
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When Taking Care of Your Dominant Makes You Feel Less Submissive LB008
Kayla Lords discusses that moment when taking care of your Dominant makes you feel less submissive because you’re in charge of so much. It’s all about perception, and it may require thinking about what...
Tasks in a D/s Relationship – LB007
Kayla Lords hosts this week’s episode, and it’s her longest solo show to date. She spends nearly 20 minutes discussing her tasks as a submissive in a D/s relationship. While there are no “correct”...
Making the Switch to a Daddy Dom/Little Dynamic – LB006
Hosted by both Kayla Lords and John Brownstone, episode six of Loving BDSM focuses on making the switch from a D/s to Daddy Dom/little dynamic. Many submissives admit to recognizing themselves in the descriptions...
LB005: Submissives Ask if Communication Issues are OK
This week’s episode, hosted by Kayla Lords, addresses some common questions she receives from submissives about communication with their Dominants. Basically, submissives want to know if certain behaviors are normal or okay. Kayla’s answer?...
Discovering BDSM and His Dominant Self
John Brownstone hosts his first episode of the Loving BDSM podcast. This week’s topic – his personal journey into BDSM and discovering his Dominant self. In this episode: John Brownstone really exists! Where he...
