Putting a (Cock) Ring On It
Say cock ring to some people, and they quiver with thoughts of submissives being bound and tortured by all kinds of kinky fuckery – with or without a cock ring. I will admit there...
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Kneeling and Crawling LB091
This week we’re talking about kneeling and crawling, two stereotypical submissive acts that not everyone can do, or even wants to do. In this episode: This week’s episode inspired by two topics from...
10 Ideas for Submissives Who Can’t Kneel or Crawl
Crawling and kneeling as submissive acts are depicted everywhere – from porn and erotica to the leashes and collars in sex toy shops. The common idea is that all submissives must kneel on the...
Topping from the Bottom LB090
We didn’t know a lot of people had feelings about this topic until we mentioned in on the blog and on Twitter. Episode 90 focuses on topping from the bottom – what it is,...
6 Things That Aren’t Topping from the Bottom
Ahhhh, topping from the bottom. That time honored tradition that either means a submissive has a lot to learn or one in dire need of reconfiguring their D/s relationship. Of course, unfortunately, sometimes the accusation...
Dealing With Your Insecurities in D/s LB089
We’re back for episode 89 and we’re talking about something that kills relationships or makes it impossible to get one started – your insecurities about yourself, your partner, past relationships, you name it. In...
