The Reality of Squirting

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  1. Wow, a very well written post. I have always been a squirter, though I was always concerned by the fact that it only happened from clitoral stimulation for me when I had read/heard it had to be with G-Spot stimulation. I am glad I am not the only one who can squirt from clitoral stimulation only.

    • Kayla Lords says:

      Clit squirters, unite! Every time I talk about squirting, I feel like I have to add that because so many people talk about g-spots.

  2. May More says:

    Great informative article – I only know I squirt now and then I didn’t know the whys or wherefores but I have certainly learnt something from your post’

  3. CurveyCat says:

    I so enjoy you post. Only the last year have I squirted… Sir wanted to try from reading. I too am a clit / squirter. The g spot nothing happened ! I am totally spent after squirting ….

    Happily Ever Ds ,
    CurveyCat

  4. Kinky Kat says:

    this just happened to me for the first time in my 41 years the other day and i was so surprised by it that all play came to a grinding halt. We weren’t trying to make it happen and it’s just never been a thing i thought i was capable of; i’ve had a lot of sex over the years and many orgasms starting at an early age. so i was pleasantly surprised, taken a back, and mesmerized simultaneously that i sat up and stopped the play just to look at it and then my type A-ness kicked in and i had to clean up. Thank goodness i’ve heard Kayla talk about it in her shows otherwise i would’ve thought i’d pissed myself. πŸ™‚

    • Kayla Lords says:

      LOL, yay for knowing what it was. I didn’t orgasm for years because I thought I was going to pee on myself so I can imagine how horrifying that would have been if you didn’t know what it was. Yeah, after I squirt, if I can still move, I want to clean everything up immediately, lol.

  5. masterdm101 says:

    Wow I am lucky my partner/ sub is a massive squirter.
    First women I’ve been with who has been though. I just thought it was something in porn movies.
    The first time we had kinky rough sex she covered me again and again. My sub is lucky cause when she orgasms from any form of stimulation I’m wet and multiple times in a session. Though there are times that she doesn’t squirt and as she calls them has dry ones which she says can be painful. I do a fair bit off edge play with her which could help with her squirting. Plus I do make sure she is well hydrated.

    Play Safe
    Master D
    Australia

  6. Jo says:

    Great post! I love that you compare squirting to pain tolerance – sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn’t, and all the time it’s all about experiencing pleasure in the moment, whatever that means at the time. It’s so important to not put pressure on ourselves to perform for others for several reasons!

  7. Molly says:

    Great advice here. Like you I find the Doxy works a treat for getting me to squirt and oh my yes on the drinking lots of water front. I often end up feeling both exhausted and a bit dehydrated after I have squirted especially if there have been multiples

    Mollyx

  8. Cara Thereon says:

    I had a lover who made it his goal, but I didn’t like it or the feeling. But excellent advice from you. I appreciate that you provide it.

    • Kayla Lords says:

      Ugh, I hate it when it’s a goal someone else has for you. I’m not so thrilled when it’s a goal we put on ourselves, but I understand that better – at least it’s something you WANT when you do that. When it’s someone else’s goal, it feels less like sharing pleasure and more like trying to level up or earn some sort of achievement.

  9. Cassy says:

    I never was until I was a unicorn in a swinger couple. He was very good at forced Squirting never ever though it was possible. I now can do it myself and have to others as well. My Daddy Dom dislikes it says its messy, so I hold back when we play or are together but when I’m alone well that’s for me.

    • Kayla Lords says:

      The mess is definitely an acquired taste, lol. Sometimes I hold myself back because I don’t feel like changing sheets. The orgasm is less intense when I do, but it feels like a small price to pay at the time, lol.

  10. Bee says:

    I’m with you on the fact it’s not urine, there’s definitely a different look to it, I’ve never tasted it simply because it’s mostly over the carpet and bed and licking it from those doesn’t sound too appetising!

    I’m also glad you mentioned yours are clitoral, I’m constantly hearing it’s a g-spot thing and I’m fairly convinced I don’t have one of those!

    As for almost drowning your partner…that made me giggle!

    • Kayla Lords says:

      It’s funny that even those who believe in squirting still believe myths – like it’s all g-spot. Very little works on my g-spot unless i”m already extremely aroused and have had a few orgasms. Squirting is even more difficult – again, unless I’ve already been getting off for a while. Personally, I’d prefer to skip my g-spot all together and focus on my clit, lol.

      • Skeeta says:

        The clit is where its at !!!!! Every time my partner licks r sucks on my clit it just pours out !!!!! Drives him crazy but it doesn’t pour out like that if I’m not hydrated !!!

  11. DS says:

    Well thank you for a lot of what has been said and clarified. I was performing a vigorous oral on my slave at the time and used what I will call “The Raspberry” approach. I just tried it to see if stimulation would be enough for an orgasm. Well funny thing is, I got more than I thought and the first of many gushes were acquired. At first I did think it was urine, but seemed to be great to see my slave be able to do something she has never done before,– so when I wanted to give her a special treat I would repeat it. It became a special part of our relationship. For her it was the stimulation of and on the clit that worked, nothing internal was needed or required.

  12. Dominie says:

    Hi… thank you for writing this… I have had difficulty coming to terms with this ability … you made is easier.

  13. Pink says:

    I always hear different things so I’m not sure what works. I’ve heard to drink plenty of water but not right before sex. That never seemed to work. But 1 time I did drink water right before sex & lots of fluid came out at the point of orgasm-yet, I’m not sure if it’s ejaculation or pee or a little of both. It didn’t quite smell like urine but it did have a very slight faint of it? I’m so confused since I’ve only done it once?? Your thoughts?

    • Kayla Lords says:

      Squirting is different for everyone and everyone needs different types of stimulation, time, and other factors if they’re able to do it at all. And the fluid that comes out of my body doesn’t smell or look like urine but that doesn’t mean there might not be traces of urine in it. I’ve read articles that indicate the fluid comes from the bladder but isn’t the exact same chemical make-up as urine (though there are similarities). My unscientific, non-professional opinion would be to say that what you experienced may have been squirting as I’m familiar with it.

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