Category: Submissives

It’s not always easy knowing how to navigate your D/s relationship or the kink life as a submissive. Between predators, uneducated Dominants, and whatever societal expectations you may have been taught, it’s not always easy to know what to do, who to trust, or how to be your submissive self in a healthy way.

As the one who serves and gives up control, submissives are in a very vulnerable position. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be who you are or enjoy the D/s or BDSM life to the fullest. But you do need to educate yourself in order to stay safe. Here you’ll find articles geared specifically to submissives — to help you stay safe, help you navigate your D/s relationship in a healthy way, and help you be the best submissive you can be.

episode 418 of the Loving BDSM podcast 0

Episodes / Submissives

Assertive Submissives

Assertive gets conflated with bratting, demanding, and/or unsubmissive-like behavior. And we fundamentally disagree, so let’s talk about it. In this episode: All of our Etsy shops are on sale thru the rest of the...

episode 397 of the Loving BDSM podcast 0

Episodes / Submissives

Submission With Control Issues

We joke about Kayla’s control issues, but they’re definitely a thing we both have to navigate in our power exchange. In this episode: We joke about Kayla’s control issues all the time.  The stereotype...

episode 386 of the Loving BDSM podcast 0

Episodes / Submissives

Submission and Pleasure

This week’s episode isn’t meant to be a continuation of the pleasure Dom discussion from last week – though it seems that way. Instead it’s a reminder to (too many) kinksters that yes, submissives...