Category: Kinky Fuckery

Kinky fuckery is our catchall term for all the kinky things we can do — together or as individuals. These include individual kinks, fetishes, BDSM scene ideas, safety practices, and advice on how to try a new kink.

There are so many ways to get kinky and find satisfaction, sexual or otherwise, that this area will never stop growing. If you can imagine doing it, someone has kinked it up.

episode 396 of the Loving BDSM podcast

Episodes / Kinky Fuckery

May 17, 2024

What Grounds or Centers You in Kink?

Hair pulling inspired this week’s episode – because it was a grounding and/or centering moment in kink. So let’s talk about it. In this episode: Friday night live stream on May 17 starting at...

Q&A episode

BDSM Questions / Episodes / Kinky Fuckery

April 8, 2024

Q&A: What Kinky Lingerie Options Are Available for Big Breasts?

We are so sorry for the sound quality on this episode. We knew we had issues with the video, but we didn’t realize the mics wouldn’t be picked up when we switched cameras. The...

Q&A episode

BDSM Questions / Episodes / Kinky Fuckery

March 11, 2024

Q&A: Will These Household Items Work as Pervertables?

A kinkster had a question about specific items they wanted to use in kink which gave us a great excuse to talk about pervertables in general! Here’s the question: I am on a budget....

Q&A episode

D/s Relationships / Episodes / Kinky Fuckery

February 26, 2024

Q&A: How Do I Let My Dom Know I’m Ready for Sex and Kink Without Feeling Like I’m Initiating Play?

This week’s question comes from a submissive who’s getting their desire for kink and sex back but doesn’t want to feel like they’re telling their Dom what to do. Here’s the question: I (31F...

Q&A episode

BDSM Questions / Episodes / Kinky Fuckery

October 23, 2023

How Do I Get More Kinky Fun When I Hate Planning For It?

This week, we’re talking about something that might be more common than you think — needing to plan and schedule your kink scenes but feeling like that kills the spontaneity. Here’s the question: How...