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We’re back for episode 89 and we’re talking about something that kills relationships or makes it impossible to get one started – your insecurities about yourself, your partner, past relationships, you name it. In...

Being insecure about something isn’t necessarily a problem. If those feelings propel you to improve yourself, find contentment, or learn more about yourself, insecurities can actually help you grow. The problem for most of...

This week, we answer more questions from listeners and ramble – because that’s what we do. In this episode: This week’s sponsor is Ecstatic Relaxation by Vin Charles This week’s question is from a...

Dear Kinkster-I-Respect, My partner doesn’t like this/loves this/wishes for that. I think he’s right/wrong/weird. How do I make him like what I like? What do I do if he hates my kinks? Will I...

In episode 87, we lie about how short the episode will be and how many listener questions we can answer. Hint: we only finish answering one question. There are no real show notes, but...

This week, in episode 86, we’re talking about the concept of the five love languages, as found in the book The 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman, and how to apply them to...

What language do you speak? Well, mostly, whatever language you grew up with or a combination of multiple languages. What love language do you speak? We have all heard the term “the language of...

This week, we’re answering a listener question with more details than they actually asked for. The original question was about how to set up a scene. In our opinion, a scene is whatever you...

Kinky scenes are like labels – they mean something different to everyone. For us, a scene is just how we get kinky together. It could be some kinky fuckery in the bedroom or using...

In episode 84, we’re talking about how to make a long distance D/s relationship actually work. What you can do, how you handle the distance, and all the rest that can make LDRs so...