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Few topics get people heated like the different titles and labels we use in BDSM. As they’re inherently personal, kinksters often have strong opinions on using the “right” label. While words have literal definitions,...

Let’s be very clear and set expectations up front — we’re not giving a lesson on how to add micromanagement to your power exchange. We’re not qualified to do that, although we know it’s...

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We received a question that I don’t actually have a clear answer to, partly because I don’t think there’s ever a clear answer to this one, but it’s worth think about: Can you go...

This week’s episode is a response to things we’ve seen online and things said to us — and it’s our line in the sand and our flag in the ground. The Loving BDSM community...

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Everyone goes through times when things don’t go according to plan, from vanilla life to your kinky fuckery. Disappointment is universal, but it’s what we do next and how we think about it that...

Erotic humiliation aka humiliation play isn’t for everyone. It’s a very distinct kink that works well for some and is a major hard limit for others. As with everything we do in BDSM, no...

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It’s episode 201, the last one before the holidays, and the last one before we take a couple of weeks off. So we took the easy way out and made this a giant bonus...