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I’ll admit this question was a first for me, but when I read it, I understood why someone might wonder: My partner and I fully enjoy our D/s relationship and power exchange. We feel...

Accountability looks different for all of us, but ultimately, it’s making sure that everyone involved in your D/s relationship does what they say they will — and if they (or you) don’t, you deal...

We love sharing video content on YouTube (youtube.com/LovingBDSM), and we’re finding new ways to tell stories we’ve probably repeated a million times. I know this story has come up once or twice. If you’d...

Few topics get people heated like the different titles and labels we use in BDSM. As they’re inherently personal, kinksters often have strong opinions on using the “right” label. While words have literal definitions,...

Let’s be very clear and set expectations up front — we’re not giving a lesson on how to add micromanagement to your power exchange. We’re not qualified to do that, although we know it’s...

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We received a question that I don’t actually have a clear answer to, partly because I don’t think there’s ever a clear answer to this one, but it’s worth think about: Can you go...

This week’s episode is a response to things we’ve seen online and things said to us — and it’s our line in the sand and our flag in the ground. The Loving BDSM community...

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