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episode 286 of the Loving BDSM podcast

Revisiting Episode 1: Anyone Can Be Kinky

We’ve been recording podcast episodes since 2015, and things have changed a lot in all these years. So we thought it might be interesting to go back to the earliest episodes, before we had...

episode 285 of the Loving BDSM podcast

BDSM Q&A

Why yes, we are doing Q&A episodes on a semi-regular basis. We’re so glad you noticed! This week, we answered questions on “getting a partner to love you” as well as our most memorable...

episode 284 of the Loving BDSM podcast

Different Types of Personal Boundaries

In this week’s episode, we take inspiration from a very vanilla article on the five types of personal boundaries we all need to set. But, of course, we talk about them in terms of...

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Our Favorite Impact Play Toys

Impact play, the act of consensually spanking, striking, or hitting a partner, is one of our top kinks. In our hierarchy of kinks, it comes right after the need for power exchange. So yeah,...

Loving BDSM mini episode 35 on funishment basics

Minisode 35: Funishment Basics

We recently did a longer podcast episode on funishment. For those who want the Tl;dr, here are five tips and things to know about funishment if you’re trying it for the first time. A...

Kinky Experiences That Aren’t Subspace

Subspace, for some people, is the pinnacle of a kink scene. It’s the ultimate sign of a mind-blowing (or mind-altering) experience. And while subspace can be an amazing moment for many people, it’s not...

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5 Signs You’re in Subfrenzy | 30 Days of D/s

We’ve talked a LOT about subfrenzy around here. For good reason: when in the throes of it, submissives can put themselves in dangerous situations or misread reality. Sometimes it’s harmless, and a submissive is...