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Somehow, someway, we’ve managed to keep the chaos going for exactly 10 years! In this week’s episode, we take a look at how we got here, then we do our “job” of helping folks...

We’ve spent the past couple of months using the free version of the Obedience app, and now we’re ready to share how we’ve used it and how it’s helped us. Spoiler: We like the...

This week’s episode is a “ripped from the pages of our life” kind of topic. We recently had a long conversation where Kayla shared some of what she needs as a submissive, but JB...

A non-kinky version of “princess treatment” has gone viral recently but when there were comparisons made to power exchange, we decided to learn more. Here’s what princess treatment is – according to the original...

This week, we’re answering more Therapy Jeff questions – this time “unhinged” relationship questions. In this episode: Register for a free BDSM bootcamp: Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey Therapy Jeff is a therapist on IG...

All kink carries some level of risk but certain activities are known to be genuinely dangerous. Should kinksters who engage in these scenes – with full consent from both parties – be “allowed” to...

Thanks to Xetheriel aka X for this week’s topic. Let’s talk about how to incorporate kink into special occasions like birthdays, anniversaries, etc. In this episode: Thanks to X for this week’s topic. Spending...

This week, we share – with each other and y’all – things we’ve figured out about ourselves that has changed over time. Not much to “learn” from this one other than that if you’ve...

We took an unscheduled break last week because Kayla got sick, but we’re back with a ranty BDSM Reddit response episode! In this episode: We’re on our new summer schedule. Subscribe to the Kinkery...

This couple has been going through it for the past few years and have spent the past year in couples counseling, but they’re not where they were before. The submissive partner worries they may...