Feeling Disconnected in D/s
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Let’s talk about what might make you feel disconnected from your partner in your D/s relationship – and how to reconnect again.
In this episode:
- Get your FREE ticket to the 2026 Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit
- Reasons for disconnect
- Not having or making time for each other
- Stress
- Illness, injury, pain
- Conflict that’s not fully resolved
- What disconnection feels like
- Ways to reconnect
- Communicate about conflict, stress, etc
- Pay attention to bids for connection – aka pay attention to each other
- attention, affirmation, affection, or any other positive connection
- This can be a wink, a soft touch, a smack on the ass or it can be questions about your day or your opinion
- Get silly, have fun together
Links from the episode:
Register for the Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit here | March 23-26
Turn Toward Instead of Away (Gottman Institute, bids for connection)
Improve Your Relationship: Pay Attention to Bids for Connection (Gottman Institute)
Kink Aware Professionals (a place to find a kink aware therapist)
Resources and sites we recommend
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