How I Deal With No Libido as a Sexual Submissive
I don’t know if “libido” is the correct word (a thing I saw from a sex educator recently indicated it might not be) but I think it’s a term most of us recognize and...
Author: Kayla Lords
Sex Acts aren’t Automatically Dominant or Submissive
It’s the month of love and lust, so we’ve got sex on the brain. This topic comes from comments and questions we see all the time. “Can I do this sex act to my...
5 Gift Ideas for a Very Kinky Valentine’s Day
Full disclosure: This post includes affiliate links which means if you click a link or use a coupon code and make a purchase, we make a small commission. This helps support the site, podcast,...
Q&A: Are BDSM Scenes Required for D/s Relationships?
I’ll admit this question was a first for me, but when I read it, I understood why someone might wonder: My partner and I fully enjoy our D/s relationship and power exchange. We feel...
Holding Each Other Accountable in D/s Relationships
Accountability looks different for all of us, but ultimately, it’s making sure that everyone involved in your D/s relationship does what they say they will — and if they (or you) don’t, you deal...
