Author: Kayla Lords

episode 116 of Loving BDSM discusses judgement in the kink community 1

Don’t Yuck On My Yum LB116

Non-kinksters aren’t the only people who sometimes judge those of us who are kinky or into BDSM. We do it to each other, sometimes without realizing it, and sometimes out of ignorance of what...

Woman with head tilted back wearing blindfolds 10

4 Ways to Use Blindfolds In Your BDSM Scene

Blindfolds have become so common that some people don’t even consider them kinky. To some, it’s kind of “kink-light.” But we agree with Molly Moore, over at Kink of the Week, who points out...

Share Our Shit Saturday 0

Showing Kinky Love Issue 4

Since it’s been so long since we participated in Share Our Shit Saturday or SOSS (ugh, and we feel so freaking bad about that!), a little reminder: Huge parts of the internet hate sex/kink/BDSM/relationship...

A different side of consent 3

Consent in Every Aspect of Life LB115

Consent is as important as it comes in BDSM and kink. We’ve talked about it before. But with the wider conversation in society right now, we thought it was important to discuss from a...

Consent is necessary for sexual contact but also in the non-sexual moments in life 1

Non-Sexual Moments of Consent

[Content warning: We allude to or directly mention sexual assault, violence, and other situations that occur when consent is not given or gained. We do not describe any specific acts. Protect yourself as you...